There are many ways having an extra marital affair outside of the marriage. One way is to find a woman who is willing to have a second affair. This is especially easier in the second marriage. The man can simply say that he cannot perform the required physical act and the woman can simply say that she is not in the mood.

Second Marriage Help For Lasting Spouses

The only real way to avoid a recurrence of extramarital sex is to have a happy long lasting marriage.This is easier said than done. Many husbands are stuck in a downward spiral. The wife will not be happy until the husband has got himself out of the downward spiral.

Want to know how to be the man who loses his wife’s affection after 5 years together? You can do it but first you need to know what is leading to the wife’s disinterest in sex. There are several things that could be behind her lack of interest.

blems in the home

isms that the husband has passed on to the wife

nesses that the wife is not happy with at home

reesults in the home that are causing the wife to decide that she does not want to have sex with her husband

physical products

monsaments that the wife is using to help herself to cope with some emotional problems

emotional problems that the wife is having in her head

depression

try not to think about what is going on in the bedroom

all of these things

Uncovering Your Emotional SubconsciousSexually Subconscious Emotions

These are some of the things that could be affecting your wife’s interest in sex. It is impossible for the husband to know about all of these things unless the wife tells him. What the husband need is just to know what is going on in her mind. All wives will tell you that they are not happy with their husbands. This is the first step. Knowing what is happening in the bedroom is not enough, the husband needs to know what is happening in her mind.

How does the husband know that he is not satisfying his wife?

Maybe you should ask your husband that question. If you don’t want to make your husband feel as if he is inadequate, then you need to know how to prove that to him. What is going on in your mind is what is going to turn you on. If you want animalistic sex to happen you need to let your feelings be known. Your husband needs to know that he is turning you on. Asking the husband for feedback is not going to work. You need to be willing to share your inner feelings and know that you are not doing anything wrong when you let your feelings out.

There are many ways that you can allow your feelings to be shared with your husband. The best way to do this is by learning to have an orgasm.

There are two types of orgasm’s, a clitoral orgasm and a vaginal orgasm.

* The clitoral orgasm can be achieved by stimulating the clitoris. The husband can take the woman by the hand and point his thumb upwards, rubbing the clitoris. The woman can then ask him to do it faster so they can get to the vaginal orgasm.

* The vaginal orgasm can be achieved by the husband stimulating the g-spot or deep spot. The woman needs to be on her back with her legs spread and the man will stand. He can use lube to do this. As the woman gets excited she will need to have the clitoris stimulated to give her a vaginal orgasm.

It is very important to get your feelings out so that your husband can know what he is doing. Men need feedback so they can know what to do and what not to do.

Women’s bodies are very sensitive and make sure that you let them know what you like and how you like it. The sexiest thing that you can do for your husband is to let him know exactly how you feel so that he can experiment with you like he never has before.